Your mind could focus with ease, impervious to self-doubt or distraction. You just don’t know why.Ĭonversely, perhaps you’ve been in a situation where you knew you’d succeeded before you even began. None of this comes as a surprise-you knew beforehand that something had gone wrong in your mind. You choke up, forget what you were meaning to say, long to just walk out, or make silly mistakes. The urge to run away and sabotage the whole thing starts bubbling to the surface.Īs hard as you try to overcome your inexplicable insecurity, something tells you that you’ve already lost. You start questioning how well you prepared. Up until now, you’ve felt good and confident about your abilities. It’s the final moment before an important endeavor-a speech, a performance, a presentation, an interview, a date, or perhaps a sports match. Here we explore a better way to learn and enjoy the process. It’s slow, makes us second guess ourselves, and interferes with our natural learning process. The standard way of learning is far from being the fastest or most enjoyable.
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